How to teach a baby to share? First of all, with your own example. If dad does not want to share his beloved lemonade with his son, and mom does not want to separate the sling of the mandarin to the baby, believing that he has his own, in this case it will be difficult for the child to learn to give his friend his thing for temporary use. If the child, playing in the courtyard, although with trembling in his hands, he gave his neighbor his favorite car, he must be praised for the joy of the other: “You are just smart, that allowed the boy to play with your toy! Look how the boy rejoices!”. If the child is fertilized, parents should try to explain why his friend is crying, who only wanted to hold on to his favorite toy. Having caused sympathy, you can offer to console the tears of a friend and let play a little with a machine.
A very important educational effect is the development of understanding in the child that if he does not need any thing, but it has the need for another, then for a while it can be provided for the use of a friend. Teach your child to ask permission to do anything. If he knows how to speak, let him remember “magic words”: “I can play with ..?”,” Let’s change “,” Let me play with …, and then I will return everything to you … “,” Please “, etc. D.
The child must clearly understand that the right to play with other people’s things gives him only the permission of the owner. This process will take time, but pays off a hundredfold, facilitate interaction with peers and adults. Training in communication skills with others is important for a future prosperous situation in the team. This process can not be allowed by chance. The child must be taught to find reasonable decisions to get out of brewing conflicts. This useful quality acquired in childhood will help him in adulthood easily come to consensus in communication with close family members, friends and surrounding people.
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