To raise a child is not easy, every little thing is important. Parents need to think what they say to children and in a tone. Each child needs his own approach, however, general statements should be highlighted, which can adversely affect children.”Wrong! Let me do as it should!»The result of this phrase will be the child’s fear of the dissatisfaction of his parents, no matter what he does. Subsequently, complexes and inanimate.
“Hold it, just calm down!”Everyone is familiar with the situation when the child begs something from the parents and is dripping, and the parents are inferior, if only it stops. When acting in this way, parents lose authority and let the child understand that he can achieve anything from them.
“Just try to do so again!»Do not need empty threats – they will not convince the child. Calmly show out discontent, clearly explain your position. The child should know that the punishment will follow the disobedience.
“Stop, I say to whom!»Words also hurt, try to hold back. If not succeeded, ask the child forgiveness. The reaction to your sharpness can be a sharp protest of the child, up to hysteria.
“You perfectly understand that …” Reading notations will not lead to anything, the child will not want to perceive such an adult phrase, especially if he is busy or dissatisfied with something.
“Good children don’t behave like that!”Do not force the child to consider himself bad, this leads to the appearance of complexes and views, from which it will not be so easy to get rid of adulthood.
“Don’t be upset about the little things!”Do not consider a trifle what is important for your child, with all the insignificance of this for yourself. Support the baby, this will help to successfully develop your further relationship.
“Think about my health!”If you pronounce this phrase too often, the child will soon cease to take it seriously and refuse to show loyalty in case of real malaise.
“Don’t even think, we don’t have money for this!»Hearing this phrase, the baby can conclude about the opportunity to buy anything – there would be money. Refuse unplanned expenses differently, choosing the arguments that the child considers significant.
“Here he is a good boy, and you … Naughty, yabeda, hooligan and so on” no need to hang labels, your child is good as it is. Just love him, and let him know about it.