The birth rate has recently been catastrophically falling, since parents do not want to have children due to the fact that they cannot provide them properly. Subsidies for newborn children distinguished by the state are not enough. In addition, a young family has enough problems that difficult to cope with without children. So far, low birth rate is not noticeable, but statistics are inexorable.
Interested in young families, we can distinguish a large number of obstacles. This is an apartment unsettled, inconsistency of salaries, low salaries, career, the need to study at universities, health, uncertainty in tomorrow and other reasons. Previously, some problems in no way affect the birth rate, but now completely different times. Young spouses either do not want to have children or are afraid.
It is also worth looking at the children’s store to understand that raising children will require large funds. These are clothes for the child, and toys, and consumables. In particular, most parents prefer to have only one child, since the second they are not able to raise and raise to their feet.
Have the only child in the family has its advantages. Such a child can pay all his attention by growing a successful and happy person. In addition, single children in the family are spared from various forms of neurosis, which are associated with jealousy and envy of their brothers and sisters.
However, in this case, there is a flip side of the coin. During the education of the only child in the family, his circle of communication is mainly adults, and this affects the formation of stereotypes. His peers may not fall under such stereotypes, which will make the child unsociable, since older children will not accept him in their company. When a child begins to go to kindergarten or school, he is lost, does not find a place among his classmates. In addition, children are characterized by aggressive games that adults do not perceive. Such a child will avoid games, becoming an outcast.
Naturally, in this case, it is best to have two children, and with a small age difference. However, in this case, you will have to equally divide your attention into two children. In addition, you will have to settle a larger number of conflicts that arise not only between you with children, but also between brothers or sisters. Often, such a large number of conflicts can lead to encouragement of family relationships, which leads to a divorce.
