He wanted tenderness. She turned away:
– I’m tired of leaving me alone!
He stood up silently, went into another room and smoked. He was not angry. He only felt sadness. He was sad and felt his terrifying helplessness. In recent months, such “family scenes” often took place in the Berghof family, between 34-year-old monika and Peter (41 years old). The gap between them grew and grew. They turned into people who have nothing more to talk to each other.
– Our marriage has come to an end. All day we either exchange reproaches, or we are silent. We lie nearby at night, like completely strangers. But the worst thing is that none of us know how it happened, how could it go so far. But once we loved each other so much…- Says Peter Berghof.
Such feelings are familiar to many men and women. Sociological survey showed: in every second German family a crisis is brewing, and every third marriage is doomed to collapse.
What “mortal sins” are guilty of the deaths of marriages? What do men and women do wrong when they live together? How does it happen that love turns into hatred or simply into indifference?
From the editor of the site:
We give one advice that may seem funny, but it works. It turns out that such a factor can affect relationships – how and on what the couple is sleeping. Is it convenient? Is this a pleasure. Now, if the mattress of Ascona lies on the marital bed, then any bed in joy. We do not know how German couples relate to this, and Russian from these mattresses in indescribable delight.
Correspondents of the journal “Quick” talked with dozens of couples about their marriage, their desires and problems. And we took a detailed interview from a professional psychologist and consultant on marriage from Berlin Conrad in. Shpra.
– Marriage has become a more complex thing. The requirements for partners to each other are growing steadily. Currently, for a happy marriage, there is no longer enough for the husband to bring money to the house for a comfortable life, and the wife has a good household, ”says the 65-year-old psychologist Shprai, married to a school teacher, who is 33 years younger than him; This is his second marriage.
He distinguishes two “disasters”, because of which marriage inevitably breaks up, and six “mortal sins”, which gradually reduce the joy of living together on “no”.
– These two main “disasters” are as follows: if one of the partners are alcoholic; If one of the partners seriously loves someone else, it will love, and will not succumb to temporary sexual attraction. But, perhaps even worse the imperceptibly growing consequences of “mortal sins”, which the following material will tell.
Based on materials from the journal “KVIK”