The first impulse is to tell. But, it never hurts to think, analyze and think about this situation. Bringing a close friend such news is unpleasant. And if you keep silent, it means to become an accomplice of her husband in treason and feel like a traitor to friendship. Soul calm loses balance. And if a friend finds out about treason not from you what to do in this case? If you look the truth in the eye, even extremely tactfully filed bad news upsets and makes the enemy brought to life for the opposite side for life. A woman simply will not believe her friend and accuse her of false fabrications. And if he believes, then all the negative emotionally charged energy will fall on your head. It may happen that friendship on this may stop. Not every woman will be able to forgive other such humiliation. After all, a friend knows such unpleasant things about her husband, and even testified to this. If you still decide to say, then take everything that can happen to a girlfriend. But most likely she will simply ignore the bad news that has been telling and the friendship comes to an end.
But what will the one that carried this news feel? And if everything ends with a divorce? If friendship is sincere, it will hurt to observe the suffering of a humiliated woman. Perhaps she loves her husband very much, and after the divorce she will reproach her friend in the collapse of the family. It turns out that when doing a good deed, the helpful friend will only light the flame in the stake, which could calmly go out by itself. The wife can forgive her husband with his intrigue and live on in calm for her family, but he will not let her friend to her.
And one more moment. Sometimes even close friends do not know much about each other. And if a woman has long known about her husband’s betrayal, but he tries to hide it with all his might, so as not to humiliate himself with sympathy from the outside, so that the children do not know anything, etc. D. Maybe she does not need the truth at all, she is calmer to live like that, closing her eyes on this betrayal? And then a friend comes and is sympathetically trying to “help”.
Another situation is possible. The family is ripening in the family, but it is not yet expressed aloud, and a friend can become a catalyst for the process of destruction and catastrophe, which will affect the spiritual calm of all. You can’t interfere with a strange family thoughtlessly. Salary reasoning is always better than rash acts. Family life is a rather thin thing so that you can behave in it like an elephant in a chimney shop. Tact, sincerity and unwillingness to destroy, but only support a close friend in trouble can be a salvation for the involuntary witness of treason.