Is it possible to prepare for all before the birth of a baby? When the mountains of books and reference books are read, useful tips are not only taken into account, but also entered into a separate notebook? All materials have been studied, all possible and impossible analyzes were handed over, consultations of gynecologists, psychologists, obstetricians were received. It seems that everything that is possible has been done, but it happens that such an insignificant problem as discharge during pregnancy can suddenly spoil the mood, drive into despondency. But when and this is already behind, and a small miracle sniffs on his hands, every day is filled with a sense of novelty, joy. It’s time to get used to the completely new role that life has prepared – the role of the mother. However, in addition to new impressions and joyful unrest, the birth of a child brings with him a lot of trouble and problems that fill every day with an endless series.
At first, friends and relatives visit, arrange brisons, congratulate and … disappear. Further, all communication comes down to rare calls with the question – how are you? It is especially difficult to get used to this attitude to the young mothers who gave birth to a baby when most of the friends do not even think about it. There is nothing to talk about with them, the interests are radically different. And the young mother remains in social isolation, since her former friends remain aside, and there are nowhere to take new ones from.
So the young mother accumulates a feeling of loneliness, the feeling comes that every day lives in vain. The problem of such women is that they have never heard about the forum of young mothers, where the same “cut off from life”, suffering from loneliness and misunderstanding from the surrounding the keeper of a new life, gather.
Remaining alone, the young mother soon begins to suffer, to feel depression, which immediately negatively affects the baby, associated with his mother, not only physically, but also emotionally. Adds the negativity of the unwillingness of the young dad to pay as much attention as the mother would like. And this, unfortunately, is a widespread phenomenon, when after the first days the novelty of sensations is dulled and the father is very happy about the worries. And it can also be understood, because most often a modern father is a young man who seeks to provide his family, he works all day, communicates with many people and, coming home, dreams of silence and peace. However, few people understand that the problem here is not so much in her husband as in the lack of communication of a woman, who could just compensate for the forum.
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